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T O P I C R E V I E WmeyraySay you’ve developed an interest in somebody new. You finally learn their birthday. Then you have that sweet moment of revelation when you finally see their chart and all is revealed! What is your knee jerk reaction to what you see? What placements excite you when you see them, which ones make you go “…ugh” and which ones make you go “meh…”? DON’T THINK ABOUT IT. Just say what first pops up from your mind and intuition.And after you’ve listed them. Why do you think that is?next to neptuneMeh-aspects:If they got an Air Moon or Venus square Uranus. Thats the ultimate deal breaker for me lol! Then I would just know that our relationship is not going to last... not just because of the placement or squares, but because they fit so bad with my chart. I just don't fit with their energy over a longer time-period. In the beginning it's always fun and exciting, but they often lose interest very fast where I just don't.If they instead got some nice and soft pluto aspects, I know they would be more intense and loyal. I also love Cancer suns and cancer placements. And scorpio, and pisces placements.CapriciousCapricorn'Wow' reaction - my Venus conjunct his Mars! 'No way!' - his Venus conjunct my Mars too!'Oh no!' - he has Taurus in his chart. Aquarius planets of mine don't like it.'Damn ((' - Saturn squares. Especially his Saturn to my personal planets. liz45750Jupiter to sun or moon both wayssaturn trines to personal planets both wayssun/moon conjunctionthese are probably my favorities, the jupiter makes us happy, the saturn binds us, the sun/moon makes us super comfortableIf I have these with someone I usually look at the neg aspects and think "okay, we can do this!" Pluto sq venus, neg neptune aspects, these usually scare me... But if everything else is there I'll try to remind myself "okay, don't lose your sh*t, you're only feeling this way bc of his stupid pluto! or I'll remind myself in the confusion to just go with it and hope for the best. There's a 50/50 chance Neptune will be deceptive and a 50/50 chance it will be amazing and provide some idealization that otherwise wouldn't be there.meyrayMy question applies to natal & synastry aspects too but what I'm really interested in is - specifically which signs have that effect on you (before you start considering how the placements affect your synastry) meyrayFor me personally (even though this is absolutely lethal for my energy and my heart)...I get excited by Gemini, Leo and Sagittarius.I let out a sigh if I see Aquarius, Taurus, Capricorn and Pisces. Virgo, Cancer and Scorpio are okay. Everything else is kind of meh.meyrayHowever it's not all placements of those signs that I find appealing.To be precise I get excited by:Gemini Sun & MercuryLeo Sun, Venus & Mars (especially the Mars)Sagittarius Sun, Mercury & MoonI feel frustrated and bored if I see the sexual planets in Gemini or Sagittarius. Leo Moon seems like a bit too much and Gemini Moon not enough.It's almost like cooking and seeing the ingredients. I quickly feel which ones I find good-tasting and which ones I don't. Yanmorgapplying conjunctions to luminaries. 7th house overlays.lots of pluto (trines and conjunctions).I love applying conjunctions because it creates a close bond without too much effort if other factors agree. Oppositions too, but those depend on which planets.7th house overlays because it lets me know I'm at least their type in some aspect and vice versa.I love Pluto because, well.. I am Pluto haha. I have Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto in Scorpio.Jupiter conjuncts my Sun, Moon (libra), mercury, Venus.Pluto rules my 7th house.Pluto conjuncts my Sun, mars, and opposes my Ascendant.Without Pluto in my relationships, there's no passion. I feel dead and cut off from the person without that intense connection. BelageExciting placements would be conjunctions involving moon, sun and venus and Jupiter, and North Node. Super exciting would be those planets falling in the other's 7th or 8th house. Venus/Mars conjunction or trine or sextile: Meh aspects would involve aspects from mars or mercury to slow moving planets. Exception: Mars conjunct, sextile or trine Pluto can be nice. Ugh would be Saturn, Uranus, Pluto or Neptune squaring or opposing venus or moon. OrangePluto conjunctions and Saturn conjunctions, from my part. Because I am a control freak and want to own them.Jupiter conjunctions and Venus conjunctions from their side. *batting eyelashes*EmGem quote:Originally posted by Orange:Pluto conjunctions and Saturn conjunctions, from my part. Because I am a control freak and want to own them. liz45750okay so you want signs.... Yayy Signs: Pisces and Aqua bc they're my sun and moon and I feel like I get themLeo bc I feel like they're easy to deal with usually, compliment and adore them and you're good to goCap is easy too, as long as you can make a clear plan with them all is wellUgh Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, I always feel like they could be manipulating meYuck Signs: Aries, Sag, VirgoI HATE: (in a man, bc I can never win)Aqua venusAries moonPisces venusScorpio mars (althought I want to love it before I hate it =P)Leo sun men have egos that make me cringe. I love leo venus though!angel4845MARS IN GEMINI opposite my Venus within 3 orbs. I don't know why I'm so attracted to Mars in geminis. My chart ruler is Venus in sag in the 3rd house.------------------Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th HouseathenaiaThings that make me go 'ugh': their natal aspects, not our synastryAn air VenusAir/Fire dominate men Venus in detriment (in a yod/a "selfish" sign/poorly aspected)Major Libra placements (don't gel well with this energy)Major Cancer placements (don't gel well with this energy)Major Leo placements (don't like things on my SN) Major Virgo placements (don't like things in my 12th)Venus or Mars RX (my Venus/Mars are well aspected, enjoy the same in others)Major planet conjunct Neptune Major planet conjunct their SN Sun opposite Moon (they're like Dr. Jekyl/Mr. Hyde)Moon opposite Venus (never know what they want)Moon conjunct Venus (two I've met were major players)Giant one sign stelliumsThings that delight me: their natal aspects, not our synastrySun conjunct Moon (I'm a sucker for these people) Capricorn or Taurus Moon Capricorn or Taurus Mars Earth dominate people Major Capricorn placements (favorite energy)Major Aries placements (2nd favorite energy/my 7th house)Major Sagittarius placements (I like planets in my 3rd/IC)Sun trine/sextile Moon Moon trine/sextile VenusMajor planet conjunct the NNA grand trine/kiteA well aspected Mercury Planets in their 7th house .. I've dated way too many people to be this specific Yanmorgscary aspects (synastry):Venus-Saturn (hard aspects)mercury-saturn (hard aspects)Aries placements (I hate planets in my 12th/ inconjunct my stellium)Venus retrograde (two childlike in love for my taste. I need a MAN )Gemini placements (inconjunct my stellium)Virgo placements (I'm just not attracted. I find them boring)squares to my mars (they will run)Neptune squares (self explanatory)Uranus squares (self explanatory)South Node contacts (someone will get bored)Saturn conjunct mars (I hate it! I will run)SalemsEnd‘Ugh’ things (or things that make me wary-though I am always happy to be proved wrong): -Sag Mars opposite my moon. Ouch.-Sun in 1st (since I have sun in 7th...) - Mc ruler conjuncting Ascendant-Too much of any one element or any one sign. Not enough variety. Two or three of the same sign in personal planets maximum. 'Meh' Things:-Virgo placements in the 2nd or 3rd decan. -Gemini placements in the 2nd or 3rd decan.-People who have mostly trines or sextiles. -Stelliums Things I love to see:In their chart:- A nice balance between masculine and feminine energy- Grand Trine Kites of one particular element. - An outer planet conjuncting or falling in their 1st house. -One of the luminaries in the 7th house -moon square venus. It's important that they deal with this too. Additionally I could also say moon in hard aspect to pluto.In synastry:- pluto in hard aspect to the moons (esp. Conj and opp)- Nodal conjunctions to the luminaries or angles. - Moon trine Moon, Moon conjunct Moon, venus conjunct venus...Angles conjunct angles.- Their mars conjunct my sun or their sun conjunct my mars. I always always like these people, and there's never been an exception. - sun or moon in 1st house either way. 12muddyWhat I'd like:- Libra/virgo mix. I have good experience with this particular combination, both in platonic and romantic connections. - Uranus aspects to match the ones I have in my chart. - Capricorn placements and/or saturn influence to match my own. - Neptune, neptune, neptune. - Middle degree Sag placements to form a grand trine with my moon-jupiter. My sag merc is in the late degree and doesn't aspect my moon/jupiter. What would make me proceed with caution:- Cancer placements, especially the moon. I have cancer chiron in the 7th oppose my cap stellium. - Many scorpio placements, heavy pluto influence. Heh, it's ironic, I'm with a person who's pluto dominant, but then again, he has a dose of saturn as well. It works.- Sun, moon, venus or mars in the 7th house.- Strong mars influence. When it's good, it's quite good. When it turns sour, the interaction brings out my aggressive nature. Aunt Anomalia quote:- Sun, moon, venus or mars in the 7th house.I'm curious why.------------------The first psychic femdroid on the market.meissieriMassive "yes!" placement? Moon conjunct/parallel/easy aspect Moon. The latter two means you two have similar emotional cycles, habits, things that make you feel comfortable, etc. It may not be exactly the same, but you've had moments like that too in a while. I like the sextile in particular because it makes good aspects to some of my other planets, and because I prefer us to put in some effort - it is said that trines can get too comfortable for a reason. Especially if you live with this person, it makes you feel like you're in sync with them. The conjunction has been phenomenal for me. Yes, true, there is the danger of setting the other off if they have a hard aspect to their Moon, because you touch it, but astro can help become aware of that! In my experience, it's just scary and wonderful at the same time how often you will go through the same things - if something happens to one person, something similar happens to the other the same day - and having similar energy levels, moments when you are active or tired, habits, things you need, etc. It's almost like the twin thing, where when one twin huts, so will the other but also about positive things. Then again a conjunction to my Moon will also conjunct my IC (double the effect!), Neptune (the telepathic thing?), Uranus and Saturn. So it sure touches me on a deep level. With girlfriends, I love love love seeing Aries pop up, whether it's on my DSC, Vertex or 'just' trines my Sun and SN. Also Mars in hard aspect to my Venus (easy works, too, but especially hard); all women who had it taught me so much about being assertive, about getting in touch with my anger and not needing to "be the bigger woman" all the time. As for a 'nooooo...!' reaction:Uranus in hard aspect to my Venus. To a lesser extend in the composite or draconic, but the hard aspect has been horrible for me. I've said this in similar threads before and it's still the same. Saved for one good friend who lives in a different region (so we have plenty of space as in not being able to see each other that often - we don't live around the corner), I can't think of a single time I've had a positive experience with their Uranus in hard aspect to my Venus. Always ends classic Uranus way: from out of nowhere, suddenly, they could've dropped off face off the earth for all I know. And I try to work things out or keep us together but they just ignore me or only pop up occasionally to argue with me. And make me feel like I'm high maintenance, demanding and unreasonable with what I want from a friendship/relationship in progress. So I do get scared when I see it. But I do have one positive experience, so even for me there's been an exception to the rule and I'm SO glad for that! I think it may have to do with her having a lot of Cancer in her chart and strong Saturn: both are known for liking commitment and staying together. yungang_grottoDifferent every time. I love men with Moon Venus in soft aspect natally... loooveee
DON’T THINK ABOUT IT. Just say what first pops up from your mind and intuition.
And after you’ve listed them. Why do you think that is?
If they got an Air Moon or Venus square Uranus. Thats the ultimate deal breaker for me lol! Then I would just know that our relationship is not going to last... not just because of the placement or squares, but because they fit so bad with my chart. I just don't fit with their energy over a longer time-period. In the beginning it's always fun and exciting, but they often lose interest very fast where I just don't.
If they instead got some nice and soft pluto aspects, I know they would be more intense and loyal. I also love Cancer suns and cancer placements. And scorpio, and pisces placements.
'Oh no!' - he has Taurus in his chart. Aquarius planets of mine don't like it.
'Damn ((' - Saturn squares. Especially his Saturn to my personal planets.
these are probably my favorities, the jupiter makes us happy, the saturn binds us, the sun/moon makes us super comfortable
If I have these with someone I usually look at the neg aspects and think "okay, we can do this!"
Pluto sq venus, neg neptune aspects, these usually scare me... But if everything else is there I'll try to remind myself "okay, don't lose your sh*t, you're only feeling this way bc of his stupid pluto! or I'll remind myself in the confusion to just go with it and hope for the best. There's a 50/50 chance Neptune will be deceptive and a 50/50 chance it will be amazing and provide some idealization that otherwise wouldn't be there.
I get excited by Gemini, Leo and Sagittarius.
I let out a sigh if I see Aquarius, Taurus, Capricorn and Pisces. Virgo, Cancer and Scorpio are okay. Everything else is kind of meh.
To be precise I get excited by:Gemini Sun & MercuryLeo Sun, Venus & Mars (especially the Mars)Sagittarius Sun, Mercury & Moon
I feel frustrated and bored if I see the sexual planets in Gemini or Sagittarius. Leo Moon seems like a bit too much and Gemini Moon not enough.
It's almost like cooking and seeing the ingredients. I quickly feel which ones I find good-tasting and which ones I don't.
7th house overlays.
lots of pluto (trines and conjunctions).
I love applying conjunctions because it creates a close bond without too much effort if other factors agree. Oppositions too, but those depend on which planets.
7th house overlays because it lets me know I'm at least their type in some aspect and vice versa.
I love Pluto because, well.. I am Pluto haha.
I have Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto in Scorpio.
Jupiter conjuncts my Sun, Moon (libra), mercury, Venus.
Pluto rules my 7th house.
Pluto conjuncts my Sun, mars, and opposes my Ascendant.
Without Pluto in my relationships, there's no passion. I feel dead and cut off from the person without that intense connection.
Meh aspects would involve aspects from mars or mercury to slow moving planets. Exception: Mars conjunct, sextile or trine Pluto can be nice.
Ugh would be Saturn, Uranus, Pluto or Neptune squaring or opposing venus or moon.
Jupiter conjunctions and Venus conjunctions from their side.
*batting eyelashes*
quote:Originally posted by Orange:Pluto conjunctions and Saturn conjunctions, from my part. Because I am a control freak and want to own them.
Yayy Signs: Pisces and Aqua bc they're my sun and moon and I feel like I get them
Leo bc I feel like they're easy to deal with usually, compliment and adore them and you're good to go
Cap is easy too, as long as you can make a clear plan with them all is well
Ugh Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, I always feel like they could be manipulating me
Yuck Signs: Aries, Sag, Virgo
I HATE: (in a man, bc I can never win)Aqua venusAries moonPisces venusScorpio mars (althought I want to love it before I hate it =P)
Leo sun men have egos that make me cringe. I love leo venus though!
I don't know why I'm so attracted to Mars in geminis.
My chart ruler is Venus in sag in the 3rd house.
------------------Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House
Things that delight me: their natal aspects, not our synastrySun conjunct Moon (I'm a sucker for these people) Capricorn or Taurus Moon Capricorn or Taurus Mars Earth dominate people Major Capricorn placements (favorite energy)Major Aries placements (2nd favorite energy/my 7th house)Major Sagittarius placements (I like planets in my 3rd/IC)Sun trine/sextile Moon Moon trine/sextile VenusMajor planet conjunct the NNA grand trine/kiteA well aspected Mercury Planets in their 7th house
.. I've dated way too many people to be this specific
Venus-Saturn (hard aspects)
mercury-saturn (hard aspects)
Aries placements (I hate planets in my 12th/ inconjunct my stellium)
Venus retrograde (two childlike in love for my taste. I need a MAN )
Gemini placements (inconjunct my stellium)
Virgo placements (I'm just not attracted. I find them boring)
squares to my mars (they will run)
Neptune squares (self explanatory)
Uranus squares (self explanatory)
South Node contacts (someone will get bored)
Saturn conjunct mars (I hate it! I will run)
'Meh' Things:-Virgo placements in the 2nd or 3rd decan. -Gemini placements in the 2nd or 3rd decan.-People who have mostly trines or sextiles. -Stelliums
Things I love to see:
In their chart:- A nice balance between masculine and feminine energy- Grand Trine Kites of one particular element. - An outer planet conjuncting or falling in their 1st house. -One of the luminaries in the 7th house -moon square venus. It's important that they deal with this too. Additionally I could also say moon in hard aspect to pluto.
In synastry:- pluto in hard aspect to the moons (esp. Conj and opp)- Nodal conjunctions to the luminaries or angles. - Moon trine Moon, Moon conjunct Moon, venus conjunct venus...Angles conjunct angles.- Their mars conjunct my sun or their sun conjunct my mars. I always always like these people, and there's never been an exception. - sun or moon in 1st house either way.
- Libra/virgo mix. I have good experience with this particular combination, both in platonic and romantic connections.
- Uranus aspects to match the ones I have in my chart.
- Capricorn placements and/or saturn influence to match my own.
- Neptune, neptune, neptune.
- Middle degree Sag placements to form a grand trine with my moon-jupiter. My sag merc is in the late degree and doesn't aspect my moon/jupiter.
What would make me proceed with caution:
- Cancer placements, especially the moon. I have cancer chiron in the 7th oppose my cap stellium.
- Many scorpio placements, heavy pluto influence.
Heh, it's ironic, I'm with a person who's pluto dominant, but then again, he has a dose of saturn as well. It works.
- Sun, moon, venus or mars in the 7th house.
- Strong mars influence. When it's good, it's quite good. When it turns sour, the interaction brings out my aggressive nature.
quote:- Sun, moon, venus or mars in the 7th house.
I'm curious why.
------------------The first psychic femdroid on the market.
The conjunction has been phenomenal for me. Yes, true, there is the danger of setting the other off if they have a hard aspect to their Moon, because you touch it, but astro can help become aware of that! In my experience, it's just scary and wonderful at the same time how often you will go through the same things - if something happens to one person, something similar happens to the other the same day - and having similar energy levels, moments when you are active or tired, habits, things you need, etc. It's almost like the twin thing, where when one twin huts, so will the other but also about positive things.
Then again a conjunction to my Moon will also conjunct my IC (double the effect!), Neptune (the telepathic thing?), Uranus and Saturn. So it sure touches me on a deep level.
With girlfriends, I love love love seeing Aries pop up, whether it's on my DSC, Vertex or 'just' trines my Sun and SN. Also Mars in hard aspect to my Venus (easy works, too, but especially hard); all women who had it taught me so much about being assertive, about getting in touch with my anger and not needing to "be the bigger woman" all the time.
As for a 'nooooo...!' reaction:Uranus in hard aspect to my Venus. To a lesser extend in the composite or draconic, but the hard aspect has been horrible for me. I've said this in similar threads before and it's still the same. Saved for one good friend who lives in a different region (so we have plenty of space as in not being able to see each other that often - we don't live around the corner), I can't think of a single time I've had a positive experience with their Uranus in hard aspect to my Venus. Always ends classic Uranus way: from out of nowhere, suddenly, they could've dropped off face off the earth for all I know. And I try to work things out or keep us together but they just ignore me or only pop up occasionally to argue with me. And make me feel like I'm high maintenance, demanding and unreasonable with what I want from a friendship/relationship in progress.
So I do get scared when I see it. But I do have one positive experience, so even for me there's been an exception to the rule and I'm SO glad for that! I think it may have to do with her having a lot of Cancer in her chart and strong Saturn: both are known for liking commitment and staying together.
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